Some people abdicate choosing to other people, for fear of getting it wrong. It’s easy to blame others for your circumstances especially if you choose not to choose, but not deciding is still a choice that you make. You cannot abdicate your life!
Not choosing does not dismiss your responsibility. If you choose not to choose, then if the circumstances do not take the path that you would like, you cannot blame and complain. Always remember it is your responsibility to change your circumstances and not the responsibility of other people.
I decided to take responsibility for my choices and I can tell you it is a relief. I know, what is mine and own it and happily, what is not mine. Owning my choices means taking responsibility for the good, the bad and the ugly and that’s OK because it is my good, my bad and my ugly and it’s my choice.
Choosing not to step forward does not keep you safe, it holds you back and keeps you in fear. Can you see that this just keeps you in a fixed position and in fear? Scared to move forward, ‘I know let’s stay here and blame others.’
All you have to do is take the first step, the first steps moves you out of the protective fixed position. Every step is a choice, your choice; every step moves you forward on your path.
Are you willing to take responsibility for your choices?
Are you willing to get on your path? The experience of your path will develop your skills and inform your experience, which will help you to:
- Reduce your fears.
- Discover more about who you really are.
- Stay on your path.
This is the path which is right for you because it is your choice.
Will Smith said, ‘You become YOU and that is all you need.’ That is all you need!
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